It can be quite daunting approaching a Mistress for the first time.

I imagine there are many questions running through your mind.

How do I address her?
Will she think I’m weird?
I want to be dominated but I’m not sure which activities I like?
What if she really hurts me?

With this in mind, I am writing this blog to answer those exact questions.
I am also going to write about the introductory session I offer for those who are new to the scene and very nervous about exploring their kinks.

I will begin with the approach.
Please keep in mind that this is My own personal preference.

Before contacting Me please ensure that you have read through My website.

Whether you are contacting Me via telephone or email it is always polite to address Me as Miss or Mistress.

Before you dive in with the details, you should always introduce yourself.
At this point I would like to assure you that confidentially is very important to Me. I will not disclose any personal information discussed.

I will then ask about your interests and why you have contacted Me.

I am not easily shocked and I am very respectful of each persons individual kink.
The more information you can give Me – the better.

By reading My website you will gain a better understanding of what I will and won’t do.
If your fetish is not listed, please feel free to ask Me and I will let you know whether or not I am able to accommodate you.

For those who are unsure about what you want to do in a session or, for those who would like to try various activities but are worried that in reality you will not like them, I offer an introductory session.

Together we will discus your fantasies and create a light and unique experience to suit us both.
It is an opportunity to try various activities at a ‘beginners level’.

On our first meeting I will use our time to get to know what makes you tick.
I enjoy spending time with your mind, gaining a better understanding of how you think and closely watching your body for reactions. I am a very observant Mistress!

Domination and submission (D/s) is based on the foundations of mutual trust, respect and consent. Your submission to Me will leave you very vulnerable and as a professional it is My job to protect your mental and physical well being. Professional domination should not be abusive and despite the nature of some of the activities it is always safe, consensual play.

I hope this blog has helped in some way.

If you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to email Me.

I look forward to hearing from you in the future!

MJ.