20Nov 2016

Manchester Mistress

 

Specialising in psychological domination and seduction.

My Dungeon is near Whitefield and Bury, off junction 17 off the M60.

Click here to session with me

Miss Jasmine – Manchester Mistress and Switch

20Jan 2017

As a young girl I remember getting extremely excited when watching Roger Rabbit.

That moment Jessica Rabbit strode onto my screen in full confidence. Her exaggerated curves screamed sexy and I felt my entire body tingle.

From then on I was drawn too strong, powerful women. I would seek them in films, magazines and even adverts on the television.

For me, a confident and sassy female was the epitome of sexy.

For the outsider reading this, one may assume that I grew up to be a fabulous, lesbian Domme. Sadly not!

As I got older I became more and more interested in boys and during my later teenage years I began experimenting and exploring my sexuality.

My sex drive was and still is through the roof.

Through the many mistakes I made I began reflecting upon my experiences and sexual desires.

I thought about my strong sexual attraction to the Jessica Rabbits of this world.

Upon reflection I discovered that my attraction to this type of woman is not sexual in a sense where I would want to pursue another woman, it was more the fantasy of becoming her.

To become a woman of lust and desire. Someone who would be worshipped as though she is a Goddess.

I would fantasize about my body becoming a temple in which men would worship and adore.

As some of you may be able to relate, the more I fantasized the more intense and the deeper my mind sank.

I wanted to be the type of woman that was not only worshiped, but men would make sacrifices for.

The fantasy escalated. The bigger the sacrifice, the bigger the turn on.

While a wolf whistle in the street or a bottle of something at a bar topped up my forever growing ego, the exhibitionist in me wanted more.

I began web camming which fed my thirst nicely, but this lasted only short term.

After a while the requests that were being made upon me began to grate and my inner frustration grew.

However, during these frustrations I began talking to a man online who slowly introduced me to the world of Domination and submissive.

He taught me about the D/s relationship, the dynamic, the respect and the mutual understanding between the two involved.

It fascinated me and ignited something inside me. I wanted to learn more and began researching with my friend, ‘The Nightwatcher’ as my dominant guide.

Without our relationship becoming sexual my Dominant teacher enabled my curious mind to explore.

We spoke in-depth about the dynamic involved in such a relationship and questioned, ‘Who is the real Dominant?’

Naturally my inquisitive brain eventually led me to the dungeon where I work now as a Switch.

I discovered that while my body is submissive, my mind is extremely Dominant.

I recall the powerful rush that swept over my body the first time my cane hit a bare bottom.

That same rush however, also ran through me when I myself was paddled over the head Mistresses knee.

You see, for me I felt the same measure of pleasure in each situation.

I can only speak for myself, but it occurred to me that its not the role I am in that determines the position I fall under.

As most of us know, things are often not as they appear.

Whether I am trampling a slave or being spanked I beleive that the superiority lies on the basis that I am female.

Whichever scenario, I am lusted over, adored and fantasiZed about.

I have something that the other person wants and/or desires which in turn, for me, no matter the situation – I will always hold the power.

25Sep 2017

 

I intend to write each blog openly and honestly.  

Everything I write is written freely from My own perspective and reflection.  

My intentions are to blog in a way which gives My readers an insight into My thought process and reflections along the way.  

I welcome any emails and messages on your thoughts in response to this but please appreciate that My time is precious. 

 

I often think about the early days and how I wanted to be perceived in the world of BDSM.  

I wanted to be the best. The most fantastic Mistress there is. I wanted to learn every style and technique and I wanted to learn fast. I wanted to offer a mass of services because I wanted to appeal to everyone. I also note, that I wanted to enjoy everything I had learnt.  

At the time in My mind, each act should be enjoyed. After all they were acts of dominance and as a Dominatrix I felt I should indulge in each of them as though each fetish was My favorite. 

I had mixed emotions.  

Did I want to be a strict Mistress? Did I want to be a playful Mistress? Did I seek pleasure in pain or did I enjoy a more sensual session? 

These were questions I pondered most of the time.  

Some days I felt as though I was drowning in information. The market that I had entered was vast and overwhelming. I am naturally dominant so why was I feeling so out of My depth? 

With this, I decided to strip Myself back. 

Rather than wanting to appeal to the masses I reflected on what appealed to Me. 

Before working as a Domina in the dungeon I got My degree in counselling. My fascination was with the mind and how we condition ourselves to think and act in certain ways according to our environment.  

The mind was and still is a great interest of Mine. Opening a person up, having them tell Me their deepest and most secretive thoughts made the hairs on the back of My neck stand up.  

Imagine someone telling you their darkest thoughts. Their biggest secrets. Their hidden fantasies. It is a great privilege, a gift in fact. It is the gift I desire the most.  

Once I have captured the mind the rest flows with ease. The assertiveness, the dominance, the control.  

Without that sense of another, I feel that an act is just that – an act. 

As an example, for Me, one crack of the whip onto a person’s back means nothing if I do not know why such an act makes that person tick. It is just a movement of the body with no solid connection of the two minds. Of course, the whipping asserts pain which often leads to a feeling of power. But for Me, that was not enough.  

With this, I knew exactly where I wanted to go with My training. I had found Myself.  

In a world that I was once drowning in, I now feel that I am at My most powerful. Not because I know everything but because I have stripped Myself down and brought the real Me into play.  

I still have so much to learn and I feel that this will always be the case but I am accepting of that.  

Everyone is so diverse. We all perceive so differently and each person has a different outlook on their own fetish making every experience very unique.  

Much like the submissive I feel that the Dominatrix is also on a special journey. A natural journey that is a fluid like process of reflection and learning.  

25Oct 2017

Femdom.

For Me, Femdom is about embracing My Femininity.
I use My bright red lips to strike a wide smile, a smile that catches your eye.
I observe your every move with My hypnotic green eyes, intimidating yet mesmerising.
I adore the feel of silky smooth nylon stockings on My toned legs.
I admire My Womanly frame when wearing sexy, skimpy lingerie.
I am at My most dangerous when I look and feel sexy.
I thrive when I am the centre of attention!

In session I enjoy crushing the fragile male ego. I gain a great pleasure when hearing a mans sexual fantasies, before twisting and turning them to My advantage. I smile when toying with their vulnerable mind and playing with their predicable body. I am amused when watching the everyday man undress, fall to his knees & beg Me to enslave him.

I use My best assets to gain whatever it is I desire at any given moment whether that may be My perfectly sculpted chest or My curvy arse to lure my prey in. I am an exhibitionist and I am here to be adored.

I love attention!

I believe that Female Domination is a very individual concept.
It is about embracing what we have as Women and using it to our advantage.
It is about having the freedom to rule in any which way we want. It should not be put into a box with a list of ‘do’s and don’ts’. It should be liberating to all Women, allowing them the freedom to express themselves whilst always staying in power.

If we believe that Women are the superior sex then there should not be a fixed set of rules that must apply to make a Female supreme.

In My experience, men are typically weak minded creatures, ruled by their egos, they are gullible and often easy to manipulate if the right Woman for them comes along!

Men are drawn to powerful Women for many different reasons.
Some come ready and willing to submit because they recognise their submissive state very early on in life.
Others are drawn to strong Women because they see them as a challenge. Their arrogant ego believes it can break the powerful Women down and it will take great pleasure in trying.
The truly confident Woman is not fooled by the male ego. She uses it to her advantage.
She plays with the ego as though it is a puppet on a string. She draws it in with Her beauty and slowly picks it apart with Her intelligence. A confident Woman who truly knows Herself, knows how to use Her power to effectively control Her puppet!

26Nov 2017

Pervert Circus is a private project I have been cooking up with my friend and colleague, Miss Kitty.

We have an interesting venue in mind for this which will allow everything from full on circus-like slave interaction to complete isolation.

Miss Kitty and I will be your ringleaders and you will perform to our liking or who knows what crazy circus act we may force you to perform for our amusement?!

This gathering is the perfect ‘first’ party for nervous novices to attend due to its set-up and remember, limits/safety words will be respected at all times. We operate a strict discretion policy. Hoods and My trademark clown masks will be provided for those who wish to remain anonymous to other patrons.

This will be an afternoon of debauchery with opportunities for prolonged bondage lovers, forced bi lovers, stretched-out strapon sluts, show offs and voyeurs. We look forward to spending the afternoon doing what we do best and making you into our performing monkey or locked prisoner.

This private multi-slave party is set to take place in mid December – If you think this is something you would be interested in attending please register your interest with either myself or Miss Kitty. All those who do will be put on a short list and contacted directly via email (or preferred method) when further details are available.

04Jan 2018

The world of BDSM is vast and there are a number of things I would like more practice in.

At a discounted rate, I am seeking experienced submissives who will allow me to practice the following on them;

Harsh whipping on a specific body part and/or full body.

Bastinado.

Use of implements including the strap, tawse and cane (hard)

Cold caning.

Various electric play.

Servere CBT and ball busting.

Physical torture.

 

My requirements;

You MUST have sufficient experience.

You are happy for an experienced Domme to be present in the session if necessary.

You are respectful.

You will offer constructive criticism if needed.

Using your experience you will guide and advise when/if necessary.

You must have a safe word.

I can mark you.

 

This will enable Me to progress in My profession by further learning technique and control at a moderate level.

For this reason, I ask that only experienced BDSM players, who are in good health, both mentally and physically, enquire.

If you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to contact me via email or telephone.

Other session activities will resume as normal.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

MJ.