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09Apr 2018

Dim light creates sinister shadows.
The loud sound of stiletto heels on the hard floor fills the darkened room.
Playful giggling echoes behind an ominous door.
A squeal of pain complimented by a moan of pleasure sharply brings you too attention.
An array of assorted dildos, butt plugs and harnesses catch your eye.
The sound of chains and muffled cries for help sends a chill down your spine.
A masked voyeur lurks in the distance.
Your eyes meet, nerves rushing through your blood, you slowly turn your head.
Her presence takes your breath away.
You stare in awe, silently.
Her body fluently ploughing into the slaves.
For a moment – you are the voyeur.
Entranced by the rhythm of her hips, you don’t notice the ominous door swing open.
In walks another, red faced and sweaty, whip in hand.
They stand beside each other. They catch your eye. They smile..

Welcome to pervert circus, bitch!

Due to the success of our last Pervert Circus, hosted by Myself & Miss Kitty, we are very happy to announce that our next event will be held in Manchester on the 20th April 2018.
This is a multislave party for like minded individuals.
Activities may include, humiliation, strap-on, forced bi & confinement.

If you are interested in attending, please email Myself or Miss Kitty for further details.
A deposit will be required should you wish to book.

Limits and boundaries discussed are respected at all times.

LIMITED SPACES AVAILABLE

19Mar 2018

The journey to Manchester is not a short one by any means, the 2 hours or so it takes is a trip which gives me many feelings, the main one anticipation, along with a few others, nerves also comes into my head to say hello.
I first came across Miss Jasmine on a website and was took away with her beauty and dark eyes, eyes like coal, glistening and deep, also dangerous and mysterious, stunning
The 3 visits I have had have all been different, enthralling without question but different, she is a lady who demands respect and sets her stall out to ensure that the respect is given, you know within minutes of being in her company that this is no ordinary individual, beauty apart, her personality is seriously dominant, she oozes strength and plays with you like a cat plays with a mouse in many ways.
On my first visit, I was made to feel comfortable, we sat down together and spent a good 15 minutes discussing my fetishes etc, sitting in her company, looking at those stunning stockinged legs and ample bosom was a wonderful experience, I quickly found myself telling her my darkest fantasies, she looked straight into my eyes and licked her lips, this sent shockwaves through my body, I ached for this woman, I longed to kiss those red lips, I lusted for her, she knew this of course, she knew I was under her spell, I was in her web, a thing to be played with, to do with as she wished.
I will not go into the details of my session, only Miss J and I know that, it is nobody else’s business really, and this is a good time to bring up the all important issue of trust, Miss J is to be trusted 100% whatever happens in session remains private, unfortunately I let myself down and broke a certain amount of her trust in me for which I am very sorry, it has taken me the best part of a year to get another chance to earn her trust, I do know I shall never let her down again.
Miss j, I believe, has a dark side, a side that sometimes comes to the surface in our sessions, she really lets go, she really goes for it, you can feel the pleasure oozing out of her has she inflicts pain on you, I love her for expressing this, where this side comes from, I don’t know, I have my ideas and would love to do a really honest one on one question and answer session, no holds barred, just the truth, whether I can build up that trust is another matter, I hope so, but I have along way to go, I must please Mistress and show her that I am hers and only hers.
Her wardrobe is exemplary, the sight of her in stockings and suspenders is wonderful, following her up the stairs whilst she is wearing a black thong and stockings etc is absolutely amazing, that is worth the tribute alone, her bottom is peachy and so very very sexy, probably amongst her best assets along with her eyes and hair, but I would say the bottoms comes out on top, I would do anything for that bottom to be mine to do with as I wished, but I know, as I should, that this will never happen.
Her voice, whilst not girly girly, is enchanting, she is not averse to raising it at you to get her point across but also expertly uses it to encourage her slave to give that little bit more for her, I imagine she has many men eating out of her hand, I would never question how many, it is not my business
Also, she educates me, she trains me and shows me the way a slave should behave, I am learning all the time and eager to please, she is also very skilled in testing your limits, she will push you and thrill you at the same time, her mind is amazing, I spend many days thinking about this lady, I can only imagine what it must be like to be her equal, to take her for a romantic meal, to dare I say it, make love to her, but as her slave, this is natural I would have thought, it is though a dream that will never be fulfilled, which makes it all the more powerful
Is there anything I would change about her, I don’t actually think there is, maybe, I would like to see her gentler side come through on occasions, the thing is though, before I let her down, I think I sometimes did, and then I messed up, so one day who knows, maybe.
I will end this piece by saying honestly, if anybody out there is looking for a Real Mistress, not silly girl who’s playing at it, not just someone who shouts and screams, but a real life dominating individual, who lives the life and is a true professional then this is Mistress Jasmine through and through.

12Feb 2018

The importance of empathy and psychological contact within a BDSM relationship.

Please note, this blog is based on My own personal feelings and experiences.

To get on any psychological level with a person I believe you must, to an extent, be able to feel what it is like to be the other person. This does not mean that I become the sub, it simply means I am able to empathise with him.

Within this, I believe empathy is a sufficient part of the relationship.
Having the ability to understand and share the feelings of My sub enables our relationship to be both healthy and safe, which is extremely important.

You must really listen and observe a person to see things from their frame of reference.
My first priority is to gain a greater understanding of the person in front of Me.

By keeping one foot in the subs world and one foot in My own, I am able to reach a deeper level of understanding whilst still maintaining My position of power within the relationship.

By delving deeper, I am able to tune into My subs thoughts and feelings.
I believe, that it is only when two minds meet that a real connection is made.
With this, what you then do within your relationship will have greater meaning to it.

Without psychological contact and only a list of the subs fetishes to go off, when the Domme acts them out she is in effect, just doing as she is told. She is pleasing her sub. Granted, she may get off on the fetishes at play, but within this approach, she will always remain secondary to them.
Which raises the question, in this situation – who is in charge?

For Me, it is only when psychological aspects are at play that I am able to take My sub to a whole new level. This new space leaves the sub vulnerable and open.
By tuning into the weakened mind, I am able to use the information selected to My advantage. It is only now that I am able to take full control of My sub.

At this point, for the now captivated sub, this unknown space is both scary and exciting.

For Me, real servitude begins – mind control.

22Jan 2018

I find humiliation to be one of the most interesting of all the BDSM activities that I am involved with.

I feel that it is at the route of many different fetishes.

What interests Me about humiliation is the psychological aspect.

I am going to use this blog to discuss My own personal thoughts on the subject.
My aim is to give you, the reader, an insight into the reasons behind why I am so passionate about the main foundation of My work – the mind & humiliation.

When reading, please consider that everything written is from My own frame of reference.
My perception of this may be worlds apart from yours.
With this, I welcome your thoughts on the subject, via email.

So. Listen up you sad fucking loser!!!!

I bet you didn’t expect that!
Did it surprise you?

For many, reading such unexpected abuse will have caused offence and possibly a defensive reaction. Did it raise the hackles?

However, for some, just reading that very line will have brought on an instant wave of anxiety. Perhaps taking them back to a time in their mind where they were unexpectedly taken aback and humiliated.

Humiliation can leave you with an intensely painful feeling.

In My experience, as well as mental anguish, the body also reacts when one is humiliated.
Sweaty palms, a quivering lip, a raised heart beat and the most obvious, a bright red face!
These symptoms only intensify the feelings created when one is embarrassed.
For Me, it is almost like having nowhere to hide, which brings Me to My next point.

Instinctively, it is My belief that when we are so open to threat our brain goes into self preservation mode.
We fight to protect ourself.
It is our way of taking back the control.
Common techniques are our minds natural defence menchanisms such as, distorting the situation or perhaps projecting the situation onto someone else, or even, not so commonly, by becoming aroused by the situation.

In the midst of pain, with the aid of a defence mechanism, could the body resort to pleasure?
Is it the minds way of taking the control back from a situation that was once out of our control?
Is the peak of your climax a direct hit back at the person humiliating you?
Are you the one that is subliminally taking control of a situation?
Are you the dominator?

I believe that in some cases, the answer is – yes.
I believe that somehow the mind has very cleverly adapted itself to protect oneself from extreme uncomfortable feelings.

I am no psychologist and these are just My thoughts.
My feeling is that I am ever so slightly touching the iceberg and that there are many other interesting perceptions on this subject. The mind baffles Me. With this, I accept that there are no straight answers or concrete theories behind the thoughts and feelings we have as functioning human beings. It is My strong curiosity and lack of understanding that strives My passion.

I am very aware that we all perceive differently and that no one knows us better than we know ourselves. It does not matter whether or not you agree with My thoughts, if anything I hope it has given you little snippet of how I think, and a better understanding of why I am so truly fascinated by the psychological aspects of domination and why it is at the foundation of My practice.

Thank you for taking the time to read My blog.

21Jan 2018

It can be quite daunting approaching a Mistress for the first time.

I imagine there are many questions running through your mind.

How do I address her?
Will she think I’m weird?
I want to be dominated but I’m not sure which activities I like?
What if she really hurts me?

With this in mind, I am writing this blog to answer those exact questions.
I am also going to write about the introductory session I offer for those who are new to the scene and very nervous about exploring their kinks.

I will begin with the approach.
Please keep in mind that this is My own personal preference.

Before contacting Me please ensure that you have read through My website.

Whether you are contacting Me via telephone or email it is always polite to address Me as Miss or Mistress.

Before you dive in with the details, you should always introduce yourself.
At this point I would like to assure you that confidentially is very important to Me. I will not disclose any personal information discussed.

I will then ask about your interests and why you have contacted Me.

I am not easily shocked and I am very respectful of each persons individual kink.
The more information you can give Me – the better.

By reading My website you will gain a better understanding of what I will and won’t do.
If your fetish is not listed, please feel free to ask Me and I will let you know whether or not I am able to accommodate you.

For those who are unsure about what you want to do in a session or, for those who would like to try various activities but are worried that in reality you will not like them, I offer an introductory session.

Together we will discus your fantasies and create a light and unique experience to suit us both.
It is an opportunity to try various activities at a ‘beginners level’.

On our first meeting I will use our time to get to know what makes you tick.
I enjoy spending time with your mind, gaining a better understanding of how you think and closely watching your body for reactions. I am a very observant Mistress!

Domination and submission (D/s) is based on the foundations of mutual trust, respect and consent. Your submission to Me will leave you very vulnerable and as a professional it is My job to protect your mental and physical well being. Professional domination should not be abusive and despite the nature of some of the activities it is always safe, consensual play.

I hope this blog has helped in some way.

If you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to email Me.

I look forward to hearing from you in the future!

MJ.