29May 2018

What’s confidential and what’s not?

Each dominatrix has a different approach and so please keep in mind that this is just the way I handle ‘confidentiality’ between myself and my submissive.

For me, confidentiality is an extremely important matter that needs to be discussed.
Contacting a professional dominatrix can be daunting for many reasons.

Many clients are concerned that their private details may not be safe.
Private details can range from real names, bank details, session activities and other pieces of intimate information given to me by my client.

As a professional, I am using this blog for those who may share these sensible concerns in the hope that I can reassure you that my services are always and fully confidential.
I require bank transfers as way of deposit.
You may deposit directly into my bank, if you wish to stay anonymous.

For those who do an online transfer, please rest assured your details are safe with me.
I am a professional who advertises my services via a website.

Despite the fact that some people may feel shy or embarrassed by the nature of this service, ours should always be an open and mutual exchange. I would never seek to use your information against you. I work very hard to build up a good reputation. I would not want to destroy it. My craft is built on a foundation of trust. I am passionate about promoting a full honesty between us – and on maintaining a full and complete discretion elsewhere.
Your real name, should you want to tell me, is between you and me.

I will not discuss you by name with any of my colleagues.
I will not seek to cause you any harm in your everyday life.
Whether you come for one session or one hundred, whether you see just me or other mistresses as well, our time and the private information that we share will always remain exactly that – private.
Videoing and photography. This is always at the client’s discretion.
Phone calls and text messaging. I will not call or message you, unless we have agreed otherwise.
I will not and do not take part in consensual blackmail fetish.
If we go our separate ways, the information that we have shared is still very much between the two of us; and I expect the same courtesy in return.

The only time that the rule of confidentiality might be broken is if:

You pose a risk to me or to others.
You might be considered dangerous.
You might not be of sound mind.
You are under the age of 18.
You are a prolific time waster.
I hope this blog has calmed your concerns. If you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to email me.

28Apr 2018

It’s the first time we’ve met.
You’re nervous but that’s okay,


You begin to unbutton your shirt, your hands shaking as you fumble with the buttons.
You look at Me, I do not take My eyes off you.
You take it off, you remove your shoes and socks, your belt, your trousers.
You are left in your boxer shorts. You look at Me nervously.


The loud tone of My voice surprises you, you quickly drop your shorts.

You stand, naked and vulnerable.
I smile.
I leave you stood for a few moments.
My eyes examine your body.

I thrive in your vulnerability.

You’re intimidated by Me.
Your head is down now.
The smart man who walked into My dungeon is no longer present.

I laugh.

‘Onto your knees, slave.’


The back of My hand strokes your neck.
You feel the soft leather from the glove against your skin.
Momentarily, you feel at ease.
I look into your eyes, I see you, I see all of you.
I see what you are.
I could reach inside and touch your soul – you’d let Me.
You feel My energy.
The connection is powerful.

I forcefully push your head into My lap.

I begin stroking  your cheek.

‘I’m going to tell you what I have planned for you.’

You stare at the wall silently.

I tightly squeeze your lips, shock of My action snatches your attention from the wall.

I look you square in the eye.

‘From today, this mouth is Mine.
This mouth will preform to My standard.
This mouth will become whatever I decide.
This mouth will take whatever I give it.
This mouth is now worth an income.
You are an income.
Listen very carefully and do as I say, understood?’

You nod.

Your nerves are replaced with fear.
Cold fear.
Fear of the unknown.
Fear of what may become of you.
As you look into My eyes, the dark realisation hits you, you will do anything for Me.
The realisation is frightening but you are hard. You are so fucking hard.

I know I’ve got you.

09Apr 2018

You’re strapped to the bench, blindfolded and naked. You’re nervous but you’re dribbling..
Your excitement amuses Me. Your weak state makes Me giggle.

I stroke your face with the tips of My fingers.
I come close to you and whisper softly in your ear, ‘My sweet boy, today, you will become My addicted little Cuckold.’

You shudder but there is nothing you can do, you’re strapped to the bench, weak and vulnerable. You’re apprehensive, you’d shout but you’re hard, you’re so fucking hard..
You’ve dreamt of this for so long.

How long?
When did the thoughts seep in?
When did you realise you were so inferior?
When did you seek that strong testosterone scent from a strong Alpha male?
How long were you able to resist your perverted urges?
How long have you fantasised about it?
When did you give in and finally worship it?

Superiority defeated you as it always would.
Now you are here. Now we begin your Cuckold journey.

I walk around the bench, slowly and seductively.
Your eyes follow My every move.
The lace lingerie you bought Me hugs My perfectly sculpted body.
‘I wore this for him – he wanted Me too thank you. He enjoyed it so much. Do you want Me to tell how much? Do you want Me to tell you exactly what he did to Me? We laughed so much at your confessions. Now, listen carefully My weak little bitch…’

04Jan 2018

The world of BDSM is vast and there are a number of things I would like more practice in.

At a discounted rate, I am seeking experienced submissives who will allow me to practice the following on them;

Harsh whipping on a specific body part and/or full body.


Use of implements including the strap, tawse and cane (hard)

Cold caning.

Various electric play.

Servere CBT and ball busting.

Physical torture.


My requirements;

You MUST have sufficient experience.

You are happy for an experienced Domme to be present in the session if necessary.

You are respectful.

You will offer constructive criticism if needed.

Using your experience you will guide and advise when/if necessary.

You must have a safe word.

I can mark you.


This will enable Me to progress in My profession by further learning technique and control at a moderate level.

For this reason, I ask that only experienced BDSM players, who are in good health, both mentally and physically, enquire.

If you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to contact me via email or telephone.

Other session activities will resume as normal.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.