Reach for the stars!

I decided to write a blog for those interested in learning about how I feel when in a session and the positive impacts BDSM has had on me. I have also added the positive experiences of others. Please note. This blog is written from my own frame of reference. Like everything, there are GOOD and BAD sides. For this blog however, i  have chosen to focus only on the good experiences I have had. I will always advise anyone new […]

A Journey into Extreme Fantasy

I first met Miss Jasmine looking to experience a session focused on psychological play, something that Mistress’s website makes clear she specialises in. I had a feeling going into the session that it was going to be a particularly good one but I had no idea just what an incredible journey I was about to embark on. The psychological side of bdsm has always been the aspect which excited me the most. When I first discovered bdsm, I found myself […]

Our first meeting

I have visited several Mistresses and this is the first testimonial I have ever written. This is mainly because most professional Mistresses I have seen have been vain, egotistical narcissists attempting to overcompensate for their insecurities. Mistress Jasmine is none of those things. She doesn’t need to be. Mistress Jasmine isn’t a professional Mistress because She’s trying to satiate an ego, make an impression or cultivate a persona. She’s a professional Mistress because that’s who she is. She doesn’t try too […]

The truth is..

I’ve been meaning to write this blog post for a while now but procrastinating is something I do well!  This blog is for those following My ever changing journey. It is an insight into My past and My present and possibly My terrible grammar!  Recently on Twitter someone asked, ‘do you know what triggered you into becoming a dominatrix?’ and I feel My response ties nicely into this blog.  With a little more detail, I was a counsellor before I […]

My submissives experience of trust and confidentiality within our relationship

Your words on confidentiality gave great reassurance. I’ve explained my situation to you and you said all the right things to help me relax. But there was still that leap of faith. I’m glad I took it. But the trust in our relationship remaining just between us was only the start. When we first met we talked clearly and openly in the build up to our meeting. You pushed me for information and it was difficult to make myself be […]

A flourishing path of discovery

I’m astonished that in a short space of time Miss Jasmine and I have gone from tentatively playing to an intuitive understanding of where we are going. I am loathe to describe things as ‘a journey’ but it is clear that Miss Jasmine and I have set out on a path of discovery of events and of one another. This is possible because of the open environment Miss Jasmine creates where one is encouraged to share wants/needs and feedback after […]

Newly Exploring Submission

As someone anxious about exploring BDSM with a professional dominatrix, Miss Jasmine immediately put me at ease with her openness to talk through my feelings and past experiences before the session began. I was reassured that it was okay to have submissive feelings and to explore them with her. The session allowed me to experience fantasies and ideas in a safe, discreet and reassuring environment whilst being pushed to really discover more about myself. I felt Miss Jasmine took a […]

Extreme Fantasy Exploration

Have you ever fantasied about being seduced by a wickedly sexy woman? Her slow gaze, curvaceous body and soft voice slowly, lulling you into a false sense of comfort. Does your submissively sweet nature make you easy prey? I want you to imagine yourself in My presence. I softly persuade you onto your knees. I stand over you, your head aligned with my heavy cleavage. I don’t force your eyes down, instead I stroke your cheek. ‘My sweet, boy.’ Your […]

Feminisation – The slut in you.

You’re trembling, excited yet nervous inside. You follow behind Me into a warmly lit room. Laid out on the glass table is an open make-up set. Eye shadows, blush and lipsticks of every colour meet your eye. To the left, a choice of lingerie and outfits ranging from slutty black lace to soft frilly pinks. Your eyes explore the room. Paddles and canes for the naughty sissy girls! Dildos and butt plugs for slutty whores! A huge mirror covering a […]


I was nervous when I arrived as it was our first meeting, but Miss Jasmine was warm and welcoming. She took me through to a large dungeon and we sat together on a sofa, whilst she got to know me a bit, before the session started. She was friendly but extremely attentive to everything I said, she showed great interest and some of her questions challenged me, as she explored why I was starting down this path. She is very […]