The truth is..

I’ve been meaning to write this blog post for a while now but procrastinating is something I do well!  This blog is for those following My ever changing journey. It is an insight into My past and My present and possibly My terrible grammar!  Recently on Twitter someone asked, ‘do you know what triggered you into becoming a dominatrix?’ and I feel My response ties nicely into this blog.  With a little more detail, I was a counsellor before I […]

My submissives experience of trust and confidentiality within our relationship

Your words on confidentiality gave great reassurance. I’ve explained my situation to you and you said all the right things to help me relax. But there was still that leap of faith. I’m glad I took it. But the trust in our relationship remaining just between us was only the start. When we first met we talked clearly and openly in the build up to our meeting. You pushed me for information and it was difficult to make myself be […]

A flourishing path of discovery

I’m astonished that in a short space of time Miss Jasmine and I have gone from tentatively playing to an intuitive understanding of where we are going. I am loathe to describe things as ‘a journey’ but it is clear that Miss Jasmine and I have set out on a path of discovery of events and of one another. This is possible because of the open environment Miss Jasmine creates where one is encouraged to share wants/needs and feedback after […]

Newly Exploring Submission

As someone anxious about exploring BDSM with a professional dominatrix, Miss Jasmine immediately put me at ease with her openness to talk through my feelings and past experiences before the session began. I was reassured that it was okay to have submissive feelings and to explore them with her. The session allowed me to experience fantasies and ideas in a safe, discreet and reassuring environment whilst being pushed to really discover more about myself. I felt Miss Jasmine took a […]

Extreme Fantasy Exploration

Have you ever fantasied about being seduced by a wickedly sexy woman? Her slow gaze, curvaceous body and soft voice slowly, lulling you into a false sense of comfort. Does your submissively sweet nature make you easy prey? I want you to imagine yourself in My presence. I softly persuade you onto your knees. I stand over you, your head aligned with my heavy cleavage. I don’t force your eyes down, instead I stroke your cheek. ‘My sweet, boy.’ Your […]

Feminisation – The slut in you.

You’re trembling, excited yet nervous inside. You follow behind Me into a warmly lit room. Laid out on the glass table is an open make-up set. Eye shadows, blush and lipsticks of every colour meet your eye. To the left, a choice of lingerie and outfits ranging from slutty black lace to soft frilly pinks. Your eyes explore the room. Paddles and canes for the naughty sissy girls! Dildos and butt plugs for slutty whores! A huge mirror covering a […]


I was nervous when I arrived as it was our first meeting, but Miss Jasmine was warm and welcoming. She took me through to a large dungeon and we sat together on a sofa, whilst she got to know me a bit, before the session started. She was friendly but extremely attentive to everything I said, she showed great interest and some of her questions challenged me, as she explored why I was starting down this path. She is very […]

Extreme psychological fantasy/fear play.

I have just sessioned with Miss Jasmine for the second time and once again I have found myself utterly captivated by her and completely blown away by the whole experience. My interest in bdsm is very much focused on the psychological aspect of domination and it is in this that Mistress truly excels. Her ability to understand what makes me tick and use this to control me really is second to none. Before the session began we had an in-depth […]

Degradation and extreme humiliation.

I recently made my second visit to see Miss Jasmine and was lucky enough to see her new space in Preston. Our play is less physical and more mental so the simple space is perfect providing a light, airy space where I could submit. My one tip about seeing this lady in Preston though would be to make sure you have strong knees. Our first session had focused on humiliation and degradation and had reached a real intensity before I […]


What’s confidential and what’s not? Each dominatrix has a different approach and so please keep in mind that this is just the way I handle ‘confidentiality’ between myself and my submissive. For me, confidentiality is an extremely important matter that needs to be discussed. Contacting a professional dominatrix can be daunting for many reasons. Many clients are concerned that their private details may not be safe. Private details can range from real names, bank details, session activities and other pieces […]